How Rick Ross Proves That Irrational Self-Confidence is The Ultimate Panty-D...

via Very Smart Brothas by The Champ on 2/8/12

I published something at Ebony yesterday about the peculiar infatuation many white-collar young black guys seem to have with Rick Ross. Titled “Strange Love: Black Men and Rick Ross,” I tried to come up with a few reasons to explain this phenomenon, but I didn’t really buy any of them. There were no “Voila!” moments, just a couple theories that didn’t hold as much water as I would have liked them to.

Anyway, after I saw that the article was live, I posted a link to it on Twitter. It got a few replies/retweets, but none more interesting than the responses I got from Demetria Lucas. 

@VerySmartBros@EBONYMag there’s a quality essay to be written abt why bourgie women like Ross too. Totally diff reasons than you mentioned.

@VerySmartBros LOL. I might be one of his biggest fans.

@VerySmartBros@EBONYMag i enjoy the themes of hustle/ambition. and also the shameless arrogance. similar reasons to why I like Kanye.

 

As I said in a reply to her, I remember how floored I was a few years ago the first time I heard a female friend of mine express that she was infatuated with Rick Ross. As variable and unpredictable and arbitrary and contradictory and occasionally dependent on time, weather, location, vocation, and how many of her girlfriends want to sleep (or have already slept) with him as “what the hell women are attracted to” tends to be, I thought I had a pretty good idea of the type of guy that would get multiple women all Brazilian Rainforesty down there. Basically, it’s easy to see how and why women would be very attracted to guys like Idris Elba and Dwyane Wade and Common, and you assume that most women would go gaga over those guys.

But, that same instant recognition didn’t immediately apply to Ross, and I had trouble “getting” how a life-threateningly obese guy who looks like he smells like a Black & Mild factory managed to, to quote my homegirl, get her “all tingly inside” when he speaks.

Yet, as more and more and more and more women I knew would sing his praises, it began to dawn on me. His appeal isn’t necessarily about his music or his voice or his larger-than-life stature or even his (presumed) riches as much as it’s about the fact that he is an unfalteringly, unflinchingly, unflappably, and, to be quite honest, irrationally confident motherf*cker. His steadfast belief in his own “I’m the sh*t”-ness — even when the shaky merits of his status are publicly questioned and exposed — is infectious, causing others to believe “Well, if he’s so certain, he must be the sh*t” by osmosis.

Obviously, this doesn’t affect everyone. There are many women who are, for lack of a better term, disgusted by him, and even more disgusted that everyone isn’t disgusted.

Ross is just one example, though, of the fact that there is no other quality a man can possess that will “raise his sexual stock” better than a belief in himself so strong it almost borders on insanity. Irrational self-confidence — not height, not status, not intelligence, not handsomeness, not a Bentley coupe — is the ultimate panty-dropper. 

This doesn’t mean that this level of confidence won’t immediately repel many women too. It most certainly will. In fact, it will immediately repel far more women than it immediately attracts. But, the fact that it does repel actually adds to the aura, as knowing that this irrationally confident motherf*cker doesn’t give a damn if his irrational confidence offends anyone, hurts any feelings, or even makes any logical sense has a way of turning women all the way on.

Also, it’s important to note that I keep repeating terms like “panty-dropping” and “turned on” and “tingly” and “Brazilian Rainforesty.” That’s intentional. By and large, women usually do not want to seriously date and/or marry irrationally confident men. No one aside from the WorldStarHipHop “model” of the week actually wants to marry Rick Ross.

But, white-collar brothers, be warned. Why? Well, let’s just say that if your girl is sitting beside you smirking to herself while you’re blasting “MC Hammer” in the whip on the way to brunch, she’s probably not thinking about bottomless mimosas.

—Damon Young (aka “The Champ”)

CAP HEIGHTS .. CAP HEIGHTS: Don Juan – Yoko Uno (Video)

via DC Mumbo Sauce by DJ Heat on 11/28/11

As You May Already Know D.C Don Juan Has Switched Labels Going From Jive Records To Now Signing Under The Universal Imprint Fontana/Nu Entertainment…. As Don Juan Works On His Upcoming DEBUT Album Under The Universal/Fontana/Nu Entertainment Umbrella (Due To Drop Early Next Year) He Keeps His Fans Focused & Ready With Fresh “JuanMix’s”…. He’s Scheduled To Drop His Final Mixtape (JuanMix-Tape) On Christmas Dec. 25th To Keep The Fans Musically Pleased Until His Album Drops.. Here’s The Latest Video To His “Yoko Uno” JuanMix, Enjoy.. O’Booooy.

Video: Drake – The Homecoming (Much Music Special)

via Nah Right by Mr. X on 12/1/11

Following his impressive seven-hour CD signing session in Toronto on the day of his sophomore album release for Take Care, Drake sat down with longtime friend and RapCity host T-RexXx. Hanging out in the early hours of the morning at Drake’s favourite restaurant in his hometown, the men discussed everything from Drake’s emotional attachment to the songs, collaborating again with Rihanna, the special meaning behind YOLO, and hints at what’s in store for the future.

Rest of the interview after the jump.

Video: Kanye West Talks Not Getting Album Of The Year Nomination

via Nah Right by Mr. X on 12/2/11

Last night in Chicago, Kanye West took a few moments to speak to the crowd about getting snubbed from the Grammy’s Album Of The Year category. Ye chalks it up to the fact that he released 2 albums in a short time.

Previously: Kanye West & Jay-Z – Behind The Scenes @ The Watch The Throne Tour (Episode 1)

Video: Nas Performs at Music Loves Art in Miami

via Nah Right by eskay on 12/2/11

Nas performs during the Music Loves Art event last night at the Ricochet Lounge in Miami for the ongoing Art Basel art fair. While on stage, Gnozir flexed his painting skills and whipped up a quick piece that eventually sold for $14,000, which will benefit an unnamed charity.

Check out some pictures from the event over at The305

Previously: Mary J Blige ft. Nas – Feel Inside (Live At Club Nokia)